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Imageirisloverdee
Mar 29, 2017 5:05 AM CST
Name: Dee Stewart
Willamette Valley OR
Snowpeak Iris
My son lost his battle with cancer last night after one year of suffering. He no longer could breath and he is now in heaven with his family. Thank you all for being there for me

D
Denise Stewart
541-259-2343
Snowpeak http://snowpeakiris.com

Imagegrannysgarden
Mar 29, 2017 5:18 AM CST
Name: Bonnie Sojourner
Harris Brake, Arkansas, zone 7
The Magnolia Zone
Dee Crying

I just don't have any words that are adequate right now. Group hug
Imagecrowrita1
Mar 29, 2017 7:12 AM CST
Name: Arlyn
Whiteside Co, Illinois Zone 5A
Group hug Sad Group hug I'm so sorry for your loss, but, now his suffering is at an end .
Imageirisarian
Mar 29, 2017 7:28 AM CST
Name: Lucy
Hamilton, MA
irises
so sorry Dee. I lost my Mom to cancer & know the horrible feeling. Your son is fine, it is sorrowful for those left behind. Group hug
ImageMuddymitts
Mar 29, 2017 9:44 AM CST
Name: Mary Ann
Kentucky
Oh Dee. Sad but expected news. I'm glad he is not suffering any longer, but I'm sorry for you having lost both your husband and your son. Hugs to you as you begin your own healing journey. Group hug
Every day is a second chance. Every day is precious time.
Imagetveguy
Mar 29, 2017 11:35 AM CST
Name: Tom
Wisconsin
I am so sorry for your loss, Dee. Group hug His pain is over now. It's times like these that you have to hang on to your remaining family and friends for strength to endure your sorrow.
ImageMShadow
Mar 29, 2017 1:22 PM CST
Name: Marilyn Campbell
Houghton Lake, MI
I can't even imagine the pain of losing a son. He suffered a lot, and now his pain and suffering are over. You and your family will be in my prayers. It is so very sad. Group hug
ImageOrchid40
Mar 30, 2017 4:26 AM CST
Name: Val Harding
Melbourne, Australia
Oh Dee, I'm so sorry. Losing a child must be so hard to bear. I wish you strength to cope with this. It's true that his pain is over now, that is what you have to hang on to.
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Imagejanwax
Mar 30, 2017 10:34 AM CST
Name: Jan
Philo, Mendocino County, N.CA
I'm a studio potter
So sorry for your loss, Dee. Group hug
Phillipb2
Mar 30, 2017 11:09 AM CST
Dee, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ImageTBGDN
Mar 30, 2017 11:30 AM CST
Name: Leon
Indiana
If it ain't broke don't fix it!
I cannot begin to feel the heart ache the family is experiencing!
May God give special care to Dee's family during this painful time.
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I was country back when it really was.
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Imageirisloverdee
Mar 30, 2017 1:28 PM CST
Name: Dee Stewart
Willamette Valley OR
Snowpeak Iris
I thought when I lost Cassel nothing more could hurt after 47 years of marriage but losing a child who has a child who is just 3 and all of Larrys life is right now more pain than I can handle but I know that he is no longer in pain and suffering and with our Father and his own father. Thank you all for being her for me.

D
Denise Stewart
541-259-2343
Snowpeak http://snowpeakiris.com

CLUSIANA
Apr 1, 2017 3:04 AM CST
Dee
Not a single day withtout thinking of you and Larrry since your first post. I feel so much for you and your family. There are no words when such an unacceptable death hits your family. Group hug
ImageSpringGreen
Apr 1, 2017 5:07 AM CST
Name: Betsy
Utah
I thought about you every day and I knew the reason you had not posted was because you were busy with him and his family. I'm so sorry for all of you. I know how hard it is to lose a son. Let the Lord help you through the heart ache. It is impossible to withstand this kind of loss without God. Your son has not gone far.... You will feel him taking care of you and his babies closely over the next while. Those who pass seem to stay close by like Guardian Angels because they know they are needed. I am aware of situations where a Father who has passed away returned to protect his family in life and death situations. He can be there for his family in special ways now.

His babies need YOU too. Grandchildren see you as the special one who knows all the answers. We are so lucky to have our loved ones for the time they are given to us. Stay where folks are kind and life is soft. Please remember to take care of yourself. Intense grief has a physical affect on you. It is possible to die of a broken heart so talk to those you are closest to when you whom you can trust and talk to God often. Group hug Group hug
Imageirisloverdee
Apr 1, 2017 1:12 PM CST
Name: Dee Stewart
Willamette Valley OR
Snowpeak Iris
I have GOD in my heart and always have and HE has seen me thru some crappy times that to be honest I wanted to turn away but could not.
The things that I am having such a hard time dealing with are children are never to die before their parents, and he at 50 had really started his life with a loving wife and a 3 year old. Not suppose to happen. Maryann his wife and I have had hard times in the past now she is turning toward me for strenght and advice.

D
Denise Stewart
541-259-2343
Snowpeak http://snowpeakiris.com

ImageSpringGreen
Apr 1, 2017 7:16 PM CST
Name: Betsy
Utah
💐💐 Group hug I understand how upside down it feels. How unfair it all is ....when he had so much ahead of him in life that seems like rightfully belonged to him that will not come to pass in this sojourn. You are his mother. You are hurting as much as anyone yet you have to carry the hearts around you. It seems all backward, I know. Never put a question mark where God put a period. I have to remind myself this often when I wonder "Why?".

You are entrusted with helping to raise his children now. Make sure they know there is a light on the horizon and you will all reach it together. All my Love D. I know it's so very hard. ❤️❤️
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ImageDaveinPA
Apr 3, 2017 9:39 AM CST
Name: Dave
south central PA, Zone 6a
Prayers for his wife and son and you as your family goes through this time.
Imageevelyninthegarden
Jul 4, 2017 2:30 PM CST
Name: Evelyn
Northern CA Sierra foothills -
Dee ~ I just came across this thread. I am so sorry for your loss. How are you doing now? Group hug Group hug Group hug
Imageirisloverdee
Jul 12, 2017 7:58 PM CST
Name: Dee Stewart
Willamette Valley OR
Snowpeak Iris
I am still having a hard time dealing with the lost of my son. Things that can get to me so easy now puts more memories of our short time together. I had prayed so hard to have his cancer removed and placed in me. He had so much to live with with his son and doing all the things that even at 3 Nicolas (son) enjoyed with his dad. 2 weeks ago I got to take my little man for his first barber shop cut as I had always cut it. All I could see was his daddy watching over him and smiling. Larry had an infectious smile like his dad did. He never met a person that did not become a friend. He left this earth with many friends wondering where this wonderful kind caring man went to.
He, along with his dad are always with me and will be until I join them.

thank you one and all for being there for me.

D
Denise Stewart
541-259-2343
Snowpeak http://snowpeakiris.com

Imageirisarian
Jul 13, 2017 6:36 AM CST
Name: Lucy
Hamilton, MA
irises
Think about the blessing that you can be to Nicolas. Not every little boy can have a helpful grandmother.

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