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|oh Leanne, I know exactly what you're going thru! My step kids are constantly trying to do the 'triangle' thing with me and my DH. Their goal is to get me to take their side against their dad, or even worse, when they are mad at me and try to get DH to take their side. I just began to flatly refuse to participate. When they come to me with a complaint about DH I listen and then ask them what they plan to do about THEIR problem with him or when DH comes to me and says kid #1 is mad at you because you... I cut him off and tell him that kid #1 needs to come discuss it with me They are quickly finding out that I wont be stuck in the middle anymore!
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